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I want a vietnamese girl but I can't go on vacation now
#1
Posted 25 November 2009 - 09:18 AM
I'm a college student with a part time job on long island and I can't really afford to travel right now. I know I want to get married after college to a Vietnamese girl. What about the vietnamese girls living in America? Are they good too? I've only dated 1. She was very good but we barely saw each other. I want to date a new vietnamese girl. I'm a really good guy and I'm good looking too. I'm not a jerk. I hope I find a new one.
#2
Posted 25 November 2009 - 10:08 AM
If you want to meet Asian women you have to go on an airplane and visit Asia.
I also advice you not to focus solely on one ethnic group like Vietnamese, as there are other women too in Asia, who are different, but nevertheless Asian women, like Filipinas, Japanese and many others.
Some study about countries and languages might be useful too - if you cannot travel now, then wait and save your money and do not waste it for American women.
A Vietnamese, Korean, Chinese etc. woman living in USA is an American woman of Asian origin, and not an Asian woman. Not the same.
Their looks might be Asian, but their behavior is American - these people often cannot speak properly the native language of their parents.
I also advice you not to focus solely on one ethnic group like Vietnamese, as there are other women too in Asia, who are different, but nevertheless Asian women, like Filipinas, Japanese and many others.
Some study about countries and languages might be useful too - if you cannot travel now, then wait and save your money and do not waste it for American women.
A Vietnamese, Korean, Chinese etc. woman living in USA is an American woman of Asian origin, and not an Asian woman. Not the same.
Their looks might be Asian, but their behavior is American - these people often cannot speak properly the native language of their parents.
#3
Posted 25 November 2009 - 10:47 AM
Gosh! Where have I seen all this recently?
In addition to the above, the site wouldn't allow me to edit for some reason.
Yohan has it all right but I would put it a bit more simply than that if your interested in hooking up with a native Viet.
If your not fully prepared to get your head around her culture and see where she's coming from, forget it.
If your not fully prepared to be part of the family support unit, forget it.
If your not fully prepared not to be number 1 at all times, in particular where family is concerned, forget it.
That's the smallest start and if one of those 3 don't fit, forget it and stick to your own or an American or whatever Asian. Cheers.
Ahh edit did work.
In addition to the above, the site wouldn't allow me to edit for some reason.
Yohan has it all right but I would put it a bit more simply than that if your interested in hooking up with a native Viet.
If your not fully prepared to get your head around her culture and see where she's coming from, forget it.
If your not fully prepared to be part of the family support unit, forget it.
If your not fully prepared not to be number 1 at all times, in particular where family is concerned, forget it.
That's the smallest start and if one of those 3 don't fit, forget it and stick to your own or an American or whatever Asian. Cheers.
Ahh edit did work.
This post has been edited by Delta: 25 November 2009 - 10:48 AM
#4
Posted 25 November 2009 - 11:51 AM
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I know I want to get married after college to a Vietnamese girl.
Simple question: WHY?
#5
Posted 25 November 2009 - 05:06 PM
Haven't we done this before? I remember GeeWhiz had a similar fixation; though nothing psychiatric help couldn't sort out.
This post has been edited by Stocky: 25 November 2009 - 05:07 PM
#7
Posted 25 November 2009 - 05:38 PM
Stocky, on 25 November 2009 - 05:06 PM, said:
Haven't we done this before? I remember GeeWhiz had a similar fixation; though nothing psychiatric help couldn't sort out.
Yep, there's a longin of a thread back not all too far.
I guess it starts as a simple handjob fantasy and manifests itself from there.
Luck t ya forsaken.
#9
Posted 25 November 2009 - 07:08 PM
camerata, on 25 November 2009 - 06:35 PM, said:
I reckon he's been looking at pictures of Elly Kim Hong. 
... Or Katsumi's videos
#10
Posted 25 November 2009 - 07:56 PM
Guys, Those girls are Japanese and Chineses ain't they?
It's Hanoi Hanna for this man.
It's Hanoi Hanna for this man.
#11
Posted 25 November 2009 - 08:38 PM
Delta, on 25 November 2009 - 07:56 PM, said:
Guys, Those girls are Japanese and Chineses ain't they?
It's Hanoi Hanna for this man.
It's Hanoi Hanna for this man.
a.k.a. Elly Tran Ha.
#12
Posted 25 November 2009 - 08:54 PM
hanno, on 25 November 2009 - 11:51 AM, said:
Simple question: WHY?
Simple answer:
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#13
Posted 25 November 2009 - 10:00 PM
camerata, on 25 November 2009 - 08:38 PM, said:
a.k.a. Elly Tran Ha.
You know your subject I see.
Very sweet but there's a couple of things there shes sporting that don't look like what she may have started out with.
#14
Posted 25 November 2009 - 10:56 PM
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I want a vietnamese girl
It's Christmas next month .. why don't you just ask Santa to put one in your stocking for you? .. You did say you were a good boy after all.
#15
Posted 26 November 2009 - 01:41 AM
forsaken, on 25 November 2009 - 09:18 AM, said:
I'm a really good guy and I'm good looking too. I'm not a jerk.
You are our friend, and we believe you.
Stocky, on 25 November 2009 - 05:06 PM, said:
Haven't we done this before? I remember GeeWhiz had a similar fixation; though nothing psychiatric help couldn't sort out.
Delta, on 25 November 2009 - 05:38 PM, said:
Yep, there's a longin of a thread back not all too far.
I guess it starts as a simple handjob fantasy and manifests itself from there.
I guess it starts as a simple handjob fantasy and manifests itself from there.
Heh! I am offended by you saying that, well, not really, but if I was, I would be....
#17
Posted 27 November 2009 - 12:25 PM
Delta, on 25 November 2009, said:
... Or Katsumi's videos
Delta, on 25 November 2009 - 07:56 PM, said:
Guys, Those girls are Japanese and Chineses ain't they?
Oups, she is half French... Not what he needs obviously
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katsuni
#18
Posted 27 November 2009 - 05:37 PM
Delta, on 25 November 2009 - 10:47 AM, said:
Gosh! Where have I seen all this recently?
In addition to the above, the site wouldn't allow me to edit for some reason.
Yohan has it all right but I would put it a bit more simply than that if your interested in hooking up with a native Viet.
If your not fully prepared to get your head around her culture and see where she's coming from, forget it.
If your not fully prepared to be part of the family support unit, forget it.
If your not fully prepared not to be number 1 at all times, in particular where family is concerned, forget it.
That's the smallest start and if one of those 3 don't fit, forget it and stick to your own or an American or whatever Asian. Cheers.
Ahh edit did work.
In addition to the above, the site wouldn't allow me to edit for some reason.
Yohan has it all right but I would put it a bit more simply than that if your interested in hooking up with a native Viet.
If your not fully prepared to get your head around her culture and see where she's coming from, forget it.
If your not fully prepared to be part of the family support unit, forget it.
If your not fully prepared not to be number 1 at all times, in particular where family is concerned, forget it.
That's the smallest start and if one of those 3 don't fit, forget it and stick to your own or an American or whatever Asian. Cheers.
Ahh edit did work.
That's a rather sweeping generalization. I guess it depends on who you marry? I've been married to a Viet for 5 years. Never in that time have i had provide financial support to her family. Culturally it's important that BOTH parties make an attempt to embrace one another's culture, after all it's not just an alien culture to the Viets. Lucky for me my wife had studied at Uni in Singapore so she had an understanding of a 'Westernized' Culture and since moving to the UK has fully emabraced the lifestyle (not the binge drinking though). Equally i have made an effort to learn some of the language and i have a good understanding of Viet culture. But as i mentioned in the beginning of my little rant, it depends on who you marry. Not all Viets will use you as a cash cow to support their family. Of course some will. Find the right girl and it's all good.
However i would like to add that Viet women are very assertive and don't mind bossing and nagging.
#20
Posted 28 November 2009 - 12:24 AM
I hope you're not basing your experience with Vietnamese women on what you find in the US.
