Can someone share some insight of how Thai women think?
Posted 23 June 2012 - 10:18 AM
This woman is not a bar girl, she works at an office and has a normal life.
I do not want to be anything more than friends with this woman.
This is the first time I meet a Thai and hang out with them, usually it is just "hello" and nothing much beyond that.
This post might sound a little weird but I just don't know how Thais think and I don't want this woman to think I want to be in a relationship with her.
Do Thais actually like to hang out with farangs? Especially woman? I like the Thais and I think they are extremely nice at a distance, but I am afraid of befriending Thai woman because I have no idea what they might be thinking.
Posted 23 June 2012 - 11:07 AM
Why would being friends with a woman be any kind of problem?????
Edited by ryderman3, 23 June 2012 - 11:08 AM.
Posted 23 June 2012 - 11:08 AM
Posted 23 June 2012 - 11:15 AM
Posted 23 June 2012 - 11:18 AM
Posted 23 June 2012 - 12:39 PM
.........run Forest, run!
Posted 23 June 2012 - 12:43 PM
And they love the meat grinder also (getting high tech, no ducks in Bangkok)
Posted 23 June 2012 - 03:09 PM
I think Thai women do have a genuine curiousity in Western males that extends far past the fact we usually have more money than Thai men. Some of the comments co-workers have made to me here would be considered major "sexual harassment" at home except for one thing, I do not consider myself a victim and I thoroughly enjoy it.
Posted 23 June 2012 - 05:26 PM
unlike the psychos at home, you generally do not need to watch every word you say around them
This is not only typical for Thai women, but many women in Asia are like that, and it has nothing to do with the financial situation, no problems in Japan, no problems in Philippines...
Communication with people in Thailand is often much easier than in Europe or USA.
It's not only from Western men to Asian women.
In Thailand one major reason for easy communication is maybe the climate, it is almost always warm and sunny. Shops are open up to late night, people are often sitting in the street talking to each other...
Posted 24 June 2012 - 03:18 AM
I just ask them.
Posted 24 June 2012 - 03:32 AM
The Lord answered, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the logistics of that kind of undertaking. The supports required to reach the bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it would take. I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more time to think of another wish, a wish you think would honor and glorify me".
The man thought for a long time and finally said, "Lord, I wish that I could understand women. I want to know what they feel inside, what they are thinking when they give me the silent treatment, why they cry, what they mean when they say 'nothing', and how I can make a woman truly happy?"
After a few minutes God said, "How many lanes did you want on that bridge?"
Posted 24 June 2012 - 07:53 AM
Sometimes better not to ask either.........
Posted 27 June 2012 - 03:42 AM
Posted 27 June 2012 - 03:56 AM
Honestly, very strange topic & questions for me!!!!
Posted 27 June 2012 - 04:47 AM
Posted 27 June 2012 - 05:33 AM
'Normal' Thai women are - in general - not much interested into a (paid or unpaid) 1 night stand a la US/UK-hook-up-culture with a farang and also not with a local Thai.
So-called sexy Thai girls who are claiming they will do this 'for free' but only for you - or are asking for money after you meet them the same day in front of an university, near a market, 'accidentally' in a department store or in the hotel elevator and are claiming they are just simple Thai girls are not 'normal', at least not when applying Thai life-style and Thai moral values. -
BTW, I think, most Thai bargirls are very normal - they know what they really want from you - money...
Posted 27 June 2012 - 07:38 AM
Posted 27 June 2012 - 01:42 PM
And it is not our Thai police chief for culture (called Minister of Culture in Thailand) that will be able to do anything about it.
Whether it is right or wrong is debatable, but past is past.
Posted 27 June 2012 - 03:17 PM
But just the other night I heard about an American guy who met some women via online dating and on his visit here one brought her sister along to the date and another brought her dog.
Posted 27 June 2012 - 11:26 PM
Posted 28 June 2012 - 02:13 AM
Posted 28 June 2012 - 04:20 AM
Well, there you have it from the "resident expert in absentia on "all-thingz-thai", who BTW: can't speak Thai. Of course this could lead to the question; how does "yohan" actually come by this incredible insight and wisdom he so freely bestows on us?
I mean after an illuminating post like that, what more could possibly be added?
Wheew, that's sure a load off my mind. Now I don't hafta come up with some lame post to answer a question which is akin to asking "how long is a piece of string?"
Oh wait, I just did.
Sorry 'bout that. ..
Posted 28 June 2012 - 07:00 AM
Well, first of all, not so really in absentia, Yohan just arrived in Tokyo a few days ago from Bangkok...
It's all about 'age and experience' - 'observation and practice' - Yohan is quite outgoing and communicative - he speaks various languages and is not acting as a barrack-room lawyer or chamber pundit ...and so on.
I hope this short info answers your questions.
There is a 'YOHAN' thread somewhere in this forum, please feel free to use it anytime you want to write something about me, or against me.
And this one maybe....
This is maybe the oldest one I can find so far about me...
Posted 02 July 2012 - 04:18 AM
Posted 02 July 2012 - 09:04 AM
Ask any 10 y.o kid to tell you everthing on their minds ... and you'll have most of your answer.
Edited by keekwai, 02 July 2012 - 09:05 AM.
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